Tuesday

It might be my fault...

"Grandparenting offers us a chance to help groom a generation for greatness." 
~ Dr. Tim and Darcy Kimmel, Extreme Grandparenting

Goldfinch

A couple of weekends ago - when the Hunter clan went to Lion Country Safari instead of the beach - it seems that on that long ride through the safari section of the park Gavin was only interested in the birds.


According to Emily - who rode with Nick, Kristin and Gavin while Casey, Jessi and Mason rode with us - they would point out something like the elephant to Gavin and he would say, "Whoa.......look at the bird!" Lions, giraffes, chimpanzees, rhinoceros, buffalo - same response from Gavin. "Whoa.......look at the bird!" 

Hello.....

Here we were at the top of the giraffe feeding station, Nick was holding Gavin up to feed the giraffe a cracker, Mason and Nick were intently watching the giraffe who was less than six inches from Gavin's face, but Gavin was pointing at something in the distance - oblivious to the giraffe. Emily said, "He was probably pointing at a bird."


After his nap this afternoon (Gavin loves his naps and I love that he loves his naps), Gavin and I sat on the backyard swing and I heard myself say, "Gavin, look at the bird."



Oh, dear. The gazillion times since Gavin was born that I've said to him, "Look at the bird" raced before me in a flash. Gavin's obsession with the birds at Lion Country Safari just might be my fault. What a clear picture of the influence we grandmothers (and mommies and daddies and aunts and uncles) can have on the little ones God has entrusted to our nurture and care - and the need to be intentional about what we say and how often we say it.

"Look at what God has done for us."

"God is so good."

"God loves you so much."

Psalm 92 has been a well-spring of encouragement for me lately - days before my "aha" moment this afternoon - particularly the verses I'm committing to memory...

The righteous flourish like the palm tree and grow like a cedar in Lebanon. They are planted in the house of the Lord; they flourish in the courts of our God. They still bear fruit in old age; they are ever full of sap and green, to declare that the Lord is upright; he is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in him. (emphasis mine)

I don't think I qualify as "old age" yet, but even when I do, what joy there is in knowing that I can still be fruitful. According to the Psalms, it will be my charge to bear fruit with my words - declaring and proclaiming God's goodness - His power and might - to this next generation of little ones who call me "mimi".

"O God, from my youth you have taught me, and I still proclaim your wondrous deeds. So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come." Psalm 71:17-18 (emphasis mine)

I-see-you!

11 comments:

Senkyoshi said...

Thanks for the pictures of the lovely birds. I don't get to see those where I live.

Kelly Greenfield said...

Hi Patricia, what a great reminder of our influence in this world. I sometimes forget how closely people watch me.

On another note, I thought I was so cool yesterday and took some great close-up shots of a squirrel eating out of the bird feeder outside of the office window. I couldn't wait to show Michelle! I knew she'd be proud that I ahd figured out how to work the camera without her help. When she got home from school I excitedly said "Michelle, get your camera. Look at the awesome pictures I took today of a squirrel on the bird feeder. I got him up close and personal." She said "Mom, didn't you notice that there's no memory card in the camera?" Kind of like me in real life sometimes...no memory card :) Love ya, Kelly

JC said...

This post touched my heart in so many ways, thanks for that :-) I'd say, in your case, it's a good fault to have.

I love that shot of Gavin peeking!

Robin's Nesting Place said...

I couldn't help but laugh at Kelly's comment, only because I identify so well.

I love the shot of Gavin's face in the heart. That picture sure tells a story doesn't it? How funny that he is distracted by something else when he is so close to the giraffe.

The Farmer's Wife said...

You are absolutely right on about what we say over and over making a big difference in our kid's lives. I remember hearing my mom say, "Mary's not really athletic, but she's artistic." to other people and I grew up thinking I couldn't do ANYTHING athletic! I asked her about it once and she said she was trying to encourage my artistic side! (I guess she didn't like sports and would rather attend a play...I don't know.)

We happen to live 5 miles away from grandparents that reject "religion" completely, and I pray fervently and daily that the Lord will work just the opposite: that they will be influenced by the little voice that quietly says, "Thank you, Lord, for this beautiful day!"

I love the heart cut-out in your bench! Ready-made frame and perfect for grandbabies and flowers.

Thank you for your reflections...I always come away from reading your blog a little brighter and thoughtful! Happy Tuesday!

Rachel said...

I just wanted to say that that picture of your grandson looking through the knot hole is so sweet! I've been lurking here for a couple of weeks, loving the pictures of your birds. This was a great post too, thanks.

A Dusty Frame said...

This is a good thing to be your fault;)
I love the photo of him peeking through the hear hole;)!

I have a little something for you http://adustyframe.com/2009/02/18/barnabas-award/

Sandy said...

Patricia, I love the picture of Gavin. It made me cry to see that beautiful little face in the heart. It made me think of my own children and future grandchildren and just how precious they are/will be. We only have them for a fleeting moment, God help us to show Yourself through our words and actions. Blessings for your day!

Decadent Housewife said...

Oh, Patricia, you are so right! From the time my boys were tots I've said to them, "LOOK at that sky!" It didn't matter what it looked like, where we were, nor the time of day. Now they all stop and say the same thing to me. "Mom, LOOK at that sky!"...and they mean it. :)

Patricia said...

Sandy - could you plese drop me an email? pollywogcreekporch (at) gmail (dot) com

CrAzY Working Mom said...

Oh, Patricia...he is just a doll!!! I love that picture of him looking through the heart.

If you are influencing him, I think that is just dandy! He couldn't have a better one. ;)